Ok, so guy #2 and I had a conversation this morning that lasted a while (it's going on an hour and half now). I texted him this morning and told him that if he was no longer interested to please let me know and not just vanish like so many people do. He texted me back and said he had been sleeping since 5 yesterday evening to 8:30 this morning! WOW! I couldn't sleep that long, ever. He decided to call me instead of texting back and forth and we just talked about whatever and what the possibilities of "us" are. He told me that I seemed a bit distant yesterday and he was hoping for a kiss at the end of the date but I seemed to get out of there in a hurry so he wasn't sure that I was interested. I told him, first you need to work for a kiss and those aren't just passed out on the second "date". Second, I had been out the night before and wasn't 100% feeling well so I wasn't as outgoing as I normally am.
After talking for a bit about where we both stand, what we came up with is that it's not going to be turning into a long term thing, ever. He is not moving from So. Md. and I told him there is no way I would ever move to So. Md. Another hinderance is the fact that he lives 1.5 hours away and is only able to date every other week. Plus he owns a bird.... why anyone owns a bird and allows the bird to fly around freely is beyond me! This is just one more thing that solidifies that nothing serious will manifest because my animals would eat his bird! He clearly underestimates my animals because he said " I don't know about your dog and cat going after my bird. My bird would sit on top of the refrigerator just looking at them." Um yeah...NO! The bird would be dead by one or both of my crazy "kids". We both came to the consensus that "we" are not ever going to be anything serious due to all the above mentioned things. He said he'd still be willing to hang out and do things as would I. I want to go shooting and he said he would still be willing to take me one day. At least he's someone to hang out with and do things with. We are just different and I'm more into watching sports and traveling and he's more of a "bird guy" and into visiting antique places and museums. I can spend some time in a museum but I'm certainly not caring about all the history behind every little thing. Give me a good scavenger hunt and I'm in!
So, moving onward and keeping the look out for guy # 3.
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