So I realized I never officially closed on Scott. Well, it all went to pot pretty fast, and all because of Facebook. He asked if he could friend request me. I told him that I don't like to mix Facebook friends with dates. Everyone needs a place/space that is "theirs" and people misread/misconstrue things that are said on FB which leads to arguments that are unnecessary. He thought this was strange and said he needed some time to think about it. I knew right there that it was doomed. He got back to me about 6 hours later and said that he just thinks that it's odd and feels that I'm hiding something and therefore he doesn't think it's a good idea to continue the friendship. I simply told him that I'm sorry he feels that way and take care. There's plenty of fish in the sea, right?
This all went down this past Monday (today is Friday). I haven't heard from him since Monday until today around 4:00. He sent me a text out of the blue that said " You're so adorable. I had a lot of fun that night. Mostly because I was in such great company. What a shame, I really liked you."
My response? "Not enough apparently.... It's all good!"
I wouldn't be able to blog about the guys if I added them to my FB friends! DUH! Plus, I felt like he wasn't genuinely curious about adding me. It felt as if he just wanted to be in my business and scope out who I talk to. I do feel FB causes unnecessary drama though so I wouldn't add him anyway. Perhaps if we were serious WAY down the road...but certainly not after 3 dates!
My mom asked me if I would give him a second chance... after thinking about it, I am going with no. I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me. I did nothing to make him not trust me or feel like I'm not trustworthy. If he's that skeptical on date 3, then I don't need that skepticism in my life and I can do better!
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