Ok, so, not going to give too many details on this one but when I was making dinner (soup in the crockpot) this afternoon, I decided to invite Scott over. He agreed but wouldn't be able to come over until 8 which was fine because I had a lot of crap to do myself.
When he arrived, he arrived with flowers in his hand (smart man). When I offered him a drink (choices were limited) he said he forgot his drink in his truck. He offered to take Molly down with him since she was sitting at the door (again, smart man).
So we ate and watched a movie... or had a movie on. Things happened and now is where I'm going to jump to the end of the date which was about 10 minutes ago.... so I asked him if we were exclusive or not. He said he would like to be but it was up to me. I thought about it and told him exclusive would be alright. We can see where it goes. He then asked if I was going to take down my profile on the dating site we're on. I said I will put it on hold status and won't be actively looking but I'm not going to delete it just yet. He asked me about my blog and what the blog was all about. It's killing him that he can't read it. I told him I blog about the dates I go on and about the guys I meet. He said that that can't be too interesting. To which my eye brows raised up and "Oh, it's interesting" came out of my mouth. I'm even surprised of the popularity my blog has gained over the past couple of years. I guess a single gals' dating life is highly interesting (and I'm very thankful that it is). He asked me what happens with this blog when I'm in a relationship since it's a dating blog. I said...well, then it becomes a blog about my relationship. LOL. I was kidding but wanted to hear his reaction. He immediately said, um no.... no one needs to know details of someone's relationship. He left with, "so I'll see you tomorrow?" To which I said "maybe". He said "ok, maybe depending on how busy you are, I understand." So at least he's not hoping or planning to have to see me daily! That makes me feel a bit better.
So here's the interesting part... being the sneaky sneaker that I am with my Jedi detective skills, when we were out Friday night, I paid attention to his password to unlock his cellphone. He knew I knew it because I unlocked his phone in front of him. Well, tonight when he was leaving, he left his cellphone behind... I couldn't resist! Yes, people I looked in his cellphone! He had a couple messages from chics that he went on a date with. One message was from a chic that seemed like he got pretty close with because she sent him many messages saying she missed him and missed a whole bunch of things about him. He didn't reply to her. His last message to her was a few days ago and it said that he wishes her good luck and sounded like he was done with her and whatever that relationship was. I didn't find anything suspicious or like he was involved with anyone... so, he has my trust (as much as I would give to anyone) until otherwise proven he doesn't deserve it.
I figured he would realize I had his phone and not get too far before he was knocking on my door. It took him way longer than I thought it would. When I opened the door, I handed him the phone and asked if he was missing something. He asked me if I had fun with the phone. LOL. To which I replied "I didn't go through your phone. I wouldn't do that." DENY, DENY, DENY. He didn't believe me, rightfully so! I bet he will change that passcode! :)
So, this blog is currently on hold while I see where this thing goes with Scott... I'm not sure how long I will be able to be a one man woman but we shall see.... I feel a bit like a trapped animal when I think about it but hopefully that feeling will subside and it's just because I haven't been in this situation in about 9 years!!!! I will be sure to put out an APB on FB when this blog is again open for reading. I'm sure it will be eventually!
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